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September 4, 2012

Annual Fashion Night Out Event REALLY Does Matter … Not Just About Pretty Clothes!

by Teréza Eliasz-Solomon (HeiressMommy™)

I know – my peeps are at Democratic Convention in North Carolina where I was invited but had to decline [which I will be writing about in a few days], there are Jewish New Year preparations needing tending to by me and here I am writing about fashion. We all know I am a very complex broad – shall we say a thinker JAP? But this is not only about my need for couture – this 4th Annual Fashion Night Out is about so much more – talent, arts, jobs, commerce, community and that is just the obvious. Many countries and more than you can imagine U.S. cities, towns and country hamlets participate in this September 6th fete. I receive emails from this event, as well as designers I have purchased items from – on my laptop in my home study is a FNO countdown clock – I am serious – it alerts me to new included participants and keeps me directed to getting out and getting into the stores to shop and enjoy. Not to worry, no time, nothing close by – online possibilities are plenty. So I am going to explain exactly why FNO matters, how you can get involved – even if not able to purchase anything this year … well maybe just a little something!

The history of Fashion Night Out [does 4 years equal historical notation?]  is one way to understand why what some miscreant (see I got it in, lol) types think frivolous, is anything but that. I reference and explain in my blog post, See You In September – Now Lets … Vogue!, why I agree with what Anna Wintour suggested in the documentary, September Issue – to paraphrase, that is for those afraid of fashion to mock it is ridiculous and I add that the visa verse is also true. In other blog posts I detail how fashion has determined history in ways not easily understood – a leader denoting shared value by choice of attire with their people, a job gotten on account of proper choice of clothes or an inclusion to a club because of presenting well. Poor, rich or someone in the middle – most folks dress for a reason in mind – be it comfort, safety, event, style or just joy – we humans cloak ourselves in that which we hope the world will recognize as an essence of who we are. There are many wonderful charities/organizations that attend to those less fortunate or attempting a fresh start who need clothes for a job or school interview. I have participated in and donated to Dress For Success in my hometown of Philadelphia and I can tell you it makes a big difference in someone’s troubled life to feel their attire shows them at their best en route to their potential new place in this world.

Fashion Night Out is a global initiative sponsored by Vogue and CFDA – started in 2009 as a way to promote fashion and its accessory issues of commerce, textiles, design, etc.. A slumping economy demanded a forceful and committed effort to get shoppers back into the stores and so the fashionista powers that be combined that necessity with a charitable contribution aspect for NYC AIDS fund. Growing to include events, food venues, gifts packages, t-shirts/totes collaboratively designed for FNO and more lead to a successful $$$ replenishment of fashion interest worldwide. Obviously, my soon to be hometown NYC is the center of this yearly event – why not? as NYC is the center of the Universe in so many ways. No I am not being a East Coast elitist snob – ok, maybe a wee bit but credit must be given where due – for it is indeed NYC that birth this very profitable and job creating event. No worries dear readers – surely there is a satellite FNO near you and if not you can always get online baby. There will even be TV coverage and a behind the scenes/how we built this [shout out to GOP, lol] show, plus a presentation of the documentary September Issue I have referenced. WOW – now that is organizing on steroids and this brings me to the topic of ingenuity and creativity that FNO showcases so well. America Council Of Fashion Designers CEO, Steve Kolb has created a video tutorial and guide for FNO – there is Twitter and Facebook, emails and guides galore to help everyone, everywhere be a part of this late night September 6th [others close dates around the world] happening. So many venue additions have morphed from the first FNO in 2009 – food, jewelry, furnishings, art and so much more has blossomed as a result of this effort.

No more important American ideal exist than the pick yourself up by your bootstraps and make your way forward plan. A wise friend asked that I include the buy American suggestion in this blog post – yes, buying American products is important – even paramount to helping the U.S.A. economy and as such I do say we must try to buy products designed and produced here in this great nation. There is a however I must examine – the international and interdependent aspect of modernity has dictated that we consume and purchase items that are often from everywhere on the planet. I admit to loving European designers – my wardrobe full of ready to wear and couture from France, Italy and other countries but I want Americans to be in my closet as well – always looking for and promoting American creativity is a must do in my life. The glory of FNO is that it occurs on U.S.A. Terra firma for those of you here and others in their nation … so you see if you get out and shop, eat, participate in your American hometown on September 6th you will be helping Americans – jobs and incomes increased by your very presence at this event. I am a political junkie and so I will digress from fashion in a way here to say that when you enter the door of any shop in this country, no matter where their products were made, you are helping Americans have jobs – yes it is wonderful to check that label for made in U.S.A. but we must have increased initiative and yes share with other nations what we produce and they with us. The FNO is an American invention – decided and started by experts from many nations but birthed on U.S. soil – we are still the world’s inspiration and that is championed when happenings like Fashion Night Out succeed.

I have been at 2 of the 4 FNO – was hoping to be in my soon to be hometown of NYC this year but planning move, school and babies means next year will be my time there. This year I will be at a Philadelphia FNO event and DEFINITELY doing my part online. In my 2013 book, Heiress Mommy … A Modern Super Woman Life! fashion shows up as an issue in the most unlikely of places – trust me, you will lol. So even though there are more pressing issues I care about … getting Obama reelected for one, I will, as always, try to look good while doing good. May I suggest you do the same – now follow the links I provide here – including the where and how to participate in Fashion Night Out. Please go to the “Chat With Tereza” option on my blog wall to share your FNO experiences and photos via email with me. Have fun my darlings!!!

P.S. In reference to this November election – the GOP war on the arts – cutting funding will destroy fashion, design and such initiatives and therefore destroy American jobs. So while you participate in FNO be sure you are registered to vote, have the [unconstitutionally required] I.D. and reach out to others to be sure they do too. Because trust me if Romney/Ryan and the Republicans win Congress/Senate majority, no night out will ever be the same and certainly ONLY the elite will get to enjoy such events because not only are the GOP extremist planning to cut art grants and small business loans but also public transportation, etc. – so unless you have a limo ride, you are not going anywhere much once they are in control of our great nation!!!

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August 3, 2012

MY Sui Generis Life!

by Teréza Eliasz-Solomon (HeiressMommy™)

To define Sui Generis is a bit difficult as it foremost informs a uniqueness and a rare separate status or condition- a new genus developed or grown. Sounds a bit pompous when referring to one’s own life but there it is – mine has definitely been sui generis. Never to be confused with a life without strife or complication, I would describe being sui generis as very complex and also set apart from what most consider the average. As I reference in so many of my other blog posts – I give thanks to my parents, family, friends, colleagues, associates and often acquaintances for the love, guidance and support that somehow, along with G-d’s grace, always brings me to the most blessed points imaginable in life. No magic here … just G-d’s blessings, hard work and luck determined by an effort to always to do the right thing or at least being willing to admit/own up to my failings. Of course, the enemies of decency – the jealous and misinformed become terribly uncomfortable when someone, like myself, overcomes and achieves great things despite a few minor “set backs”. No my dear readers, I am not bragging but simply describing the sad state of life that many face when miscreants appear and are needed to be dealt with … whether by G-d’s wrath, the legal system and/or the testimony of those worthy against these who attempt  to destroy others directly or indirectly on account of their own need to feel adequate, when they are anything but worthy, lawful punishment must be sought. Sounds harsh and dramatic but those who seek to deny others are in essence denying G-d in that they refuse to recognize this world’s reality. We must never allow even the smallest destruction to interfere with the task of living or achieving. My Jewish faith wisely insist that to be an accomplished unique [sui generis] person is to fulfill destiny and to achieve all possible a necessity as G-d’s chosen people.

The psychiatric definition of delusional is multiple layered – for those I reference so often/those DEFINITELY NOT sui generis it is the insistence that despite evidence to the contrary they actually delude themselves in the false belief that they and only they are happy or decent or deserving of life blessings. Even for us who have had amazing educations, homes, travel, friends, etc. – a life by all standards elite and some would say superior – to deny that other more simple lived folks are happy, would be in fact delusional. Then why one must ask, do the lesser among us [the so called average people], feel the need to deny reality – to thwart others who are so much more successful [in varied ways] then they could ever hope to be? The answer is a dangerous sociological problem that proliferates among miscreant types. The danger lies in their effort to dismiss as real those more or even differently successful then themselves … some professionals [therapist] think it is that REAL achievements are so beyond these folks understanding, that the only option is denial. Having as I and my husband do, a sui generis life, leaves no option but to be vigilant and exacting in protecting our world against such individuals. Again, as in other blogs, I must leave ALL the details until later on account of ongoing litigation, recent possible criminal charges against certain people due to threats and of course my book obligations due to 2013 publication of  Heiress Mommy … A Modern Super Woman Life!

There are financial aspects to a sui generis life as well. For myself and my husband it has resulted from odd occurrences [more in my book] that allowed us to take full and conscious advantage of opportunities – in other words, we used situations that were both good and bad to seize a unique path toward success. The legal definition and application of sui generis applies for us because we own over twenty trademarks, have applied for various patents (pending) and are in legal process of getting a few copyrights. Trademark infringement law is very clear – no one can ever use our own trademarks for financial or other gains. Neither can our trademarked names [yes, we were able to trademark Eliasz-Solomon™ & HeiressMommy™ among others] to slander, libel, defame or harass by repeating or posting or writing those words without our permission.  Indeed, this is another one of my not so vague hints – earlier this week our attorneys, publicist office, Court, law enforcement, security advisers and others began an investigation into both civil and criminal lawsuits/charges against some assumed and some still being sought evil doers. NO ONE – no matter income or background, etc. should ever allow their own sui generis life to be defiled by miscreants. Of course, sadly not everyone has the means or connections or determination that my husband and I have to proceed against enemies. None the less, everyone should [always 100% legally] be vigilant against those who want to deny or destroy.

Now please understand that being a sui generis life is not always easy but it certainly is worth it. One of my book publishers has often said that unlike most life journey clients they co-author with, their dealing with me is not a  matter of “does she have any really interesting things to tell us” but more “enough already”  because they feel that my life has possibly TOO MANY amazing twists and turns to narrow it down to a reasonably sized book. Oh well, a large tome or multiple volume effort will have to be the perfect option because I have never and will never turn way from grandeur, unique choices or opportunities others might consider to be not quite rational. Happily, I married a great guy who feels the same way … onward and DEFINITELY upward for the sui generis ELIASZ-SOLOMON FAMILY !!!

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